Is it time to Declare Your Own Independence?

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Happy 4th of July!  This all American holiday brings lots of happy memories for many of us…small town parades, picnics, watermelon seed spittin’ and of course, fireworks!  I was born in Philadelphia, the place where our nations Independence began.  The Liberty Bell has always held a special significance for me.  Here’s a great resource to learn more about this icon of American independence. http://www.ushistory.org/libertybell/  

So today, I encourage you to look within and see if there are there any parts of your life that need a Declaration of Your Own Independence?  Here’s some ideas for you…..Are you ready to fight for a faltering marriage?  Is it time to step out of a bad situation and move on to divorce?  Are you ready to stand up and fight for what is rightfully yours?  Have you looked at your finances lately and declared independence from debt woes?  Is it time to divorce your debt?!

Our country’s forefather’s fought for our freedom so that we could make our own choices, declare our own destiny and then live freely with "life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness."  Are you living the life that they wished for you?  Are you living the life that you wish for yourself?  Is it time to Declare Your Independence?!

Wishing you a safe and happy holiday!

Get Information on the New Credit Card Rules

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Here is a good synopsis of the new Credit Rules that went into effect this week from the Federal Reserve.  http://tinyurl.com/new-credit-card-rules.  I have been blogging about the need for these reforms for some time now.  They are a step in the right direction, though the credit card companies were given a long head start to give many folks the shaft before the changes came.

Pay particular attention to the example given in the "How Long Will it Take to Pay off Your Balance" section.  Minimum payments will keep you indebted to the credit card companies for much of your life. 

Best bet, use your credit cards wisely… only for emergencies or if you know you can pay off the balance every month.  That way you can avoid the credit card crunch and pay yourself.  Just imagine what those minimum payments could be worth to you in retirement if you were able to invest that money for your future rather then having to pay it towards debt! 

My Case Study Published in a New Book!

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I’m very excited to have my case study on Credit Matters published in the new book, “Living Life After Divorce and Widowhood – Financial Planning, Skills, and Strategies for When the Unthinkable Happens,” by Maurcia DeLean Houck. I’m one of only 6 selected in the whole country to be featured in the book!  I hope you’ll check it out!!

 

Credit Card Reform - Live Video Conference from the White House

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Get the facts about upcoming credit card reform - live from the White House http://www.creditcards.com/live-media/white-house/.  You can join in a live video conference and submit questions as well.  Find out the facts regarding the BIG changes coming with Credit Card Reform.

Government Assistance for Homeowners is a Farce!

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I wrote this email today to a reporter at the NY Times regarding his story that came out today and my experiences with my clients in regards to the govt. assistance programs mentioned in it.  http://www.nytimes.com/2010/02/15/business/15housing.html?th&emc=th  My email to him below.

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Mr. Streitfeld,

I am writing regarding your article today, U.S. Housing Aid Winds Down, and Cities Worry.  I saw that you made reference to the home owner assistance programs through the government.  I wanted to share with you my experience in dealing with these agencies and lenders.

I am a CDFA (Certified Divorce Financial Analyst) and I have been trying to help several clients navigate the murky waters of divorce in a down real estate market.  

When the government announced the home owner assistance programs I was very excited to be able to offer a ray of hope for those buried under the debt of fallen housing values.  What I have found instead is a front and a farce with these programs.

Because the lenders can choose whether or not to participate these measures have no teeth.  I have yet to find one lender who is willing to participate and in my conversations with other professionals that deal with the same matters we are all finding the same thing - little to no participation from the lenders or servicers of the loans.

In essence, it appears that the homeowners have been offered hope, but really there is nothing behind the curtain when it is pulled back. The HUD counselors have no authority to make anything happen either.

I have called my Senators offices, Johnny Isakson and Saxby Chambliss (Ga.) and emailed the White House several times about this to no avail.  Not one of them has returned my phone calls or emails.

No one in the media is talking about this as I don’t believe many are aware.  I am trying to get the conversation going because I truly believe that the institutions that were bailed out when they needed help are now stalling in the hopes that the programs will simply run out of time before anyone realizes what is going on.

Please do a follow-up story on this as families are losing their homes while the stalling game is played.

Thank you for your time and attention.

Lisa C. Decker, CDFA
www.DivorceMoneyMatters.com

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I would love to hear your experiences with any of the government sponsored home owner assistance programs - HAMP,  HARP, H4H and their newest HAFA.  Please leave some comments below.  And be sure to contact your Congressmen, Senators and the White House to keep the pressure on to help the taxpayers who bailed out the big banks when they needed it!

Banks to Bailout Government?

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From the Center for media and Democracy weekly ezine 9-23-09

Banks to Bailout Government?
Source: New York Times, September 21, 2009

Steve Labaton of the New York Times reported that senior regulators at the Federal Deposit Insurance Corporation (FDIC) are seriously considering a plan to have the nation’s "healthy banks" loan money to the government to replenish the FDIC insurance fund that protects bank depositors. The fund, which has been tapped to protect deposits in close to 100 failed banks, is rapidly running out of money. Generally federal agencies are wary of using funding mechanisms that might give the appearance that they have been "captured" by the very institutions they are charged with regulating. But apparently FDIC chair Sheila Bair would rather pursue this cockeyed strategy than ask sparring partner — Treasury Secretary Timothy Geithner — for a government check. Not surprisingly, banks welcomed this development with open arms. The Independent Community Bankers of America’s Karen Thomas claimed, "Borrowing from healthy banks instead of the Treasury has the advantage of keeping this in the family. It is much better for perceptions than having the fund borrow from someone else." If the banksters really think we are all one great big family, perhaps they’ll start giving consumers a break on 27% credit card interest rates.

 

Is this a set up or just a bad movie?  What will they conjure up next!  ~Lisa

A Readers Question - When the Responsible Financial Party Isn’t Acting Responsibly?

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Lisa,
 
In my divorce judgment my former husband was given the financial responsibility of paying for and selling a time share in which both our names are on the loan.  He is in default of payment and this has affected by credit score.  What if anything can I do to straighten this out with the credit bureaus so that it doesn’t continue to lower my credit score.
 
Sincerely,
 
E.W.
 
 
 
Hi E.W.,
 
Unfortunately, this is an all too common scenario in divorce when splitting liabilities.  I always counsel my clients to pay off any joint debts when possible BEFORE the divorce is finalized to prevent these kinds of problems in the future.
 
In situations where that may not possible, then at least request that the mortgage, auto, credit card or other company you are indebted to, send copies of the statements to you,  as well as to the spouse that is supposed to be responsible for paying off the debt.  This will give you the ability to stay on top of seeing that the payments are being made on time and avert further problems if they are not.
 
First of all, you can take your husband back to court and sue him for breach of contract in not living up to the terms of the divorce settlement agreement.  This will likely entail hiring an attorney so factor in the cost of legal fees and see if you can recover those costs as well.  If he is in a position of not paying due to financial constraints then it may be difficult to collect even if you are successful in court.  Weigh the cost vs. benefit before rushing into court.
 
As to your credit:
 
  1. You can take over and start making the payments to prevent further problems.
 
  1. Contact the mortgage company on the loan and let them know the situation.  Ask them how much he is in arrears and will they consider going back in and correcting the credit history, in essence wiping off the issue on your credit report, if you make up the payments?  Some will, some won’t….doesn’t hurt to try.  Ask to speak to a supervisor if necessary.  These days most will be happy to reclaim the money and be accommodating to your needs as well.  Get any agreements from the mortgage company in writing before you make any payments.   
  2. Have your husband quit claim his interest to you and then try to sell your interest in the time-share on your own.  Time shares are a bit tricky to sell, so you may have to come up with some creative options.
 
  1. If you are not in a position to do these things then I am afraid there is not much more you can do other than let them foreclose on the loan.  Unfortunately, that will have a further negative credit rating on you as you have found.  You could put a note in your credit files stating the terms of the divorce, but as you now likely know, courts do not have authority to make lenders comply with the terms of the divorce decree.
 
I am sorry you have found yourself in this unfortunate situation and hope that this information helps in some way.  Good luck with it.
 
Best regards,
 
~ Lisa ~

 

A special thanks to Cindy Morus, the Money Mender, for some of the information contained above.   Cindy is my next teleseminar guest for September!  More details coming soon…. 

 

Consumer Financial Stress Test - How do you score?

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NFCC CREATES CONSUMER FINANCIAL STRESS TEST

National Financial Literacy Survey Serves as Benchmark for Financial Stability

 

 

This is reprinted from the National Foundation for Credit Counseling website. 

Take the test and see how you rank.

 

May 7, 2009  Silver Spring, MD - As Americans await news of the stress test evaluation of banks, many may wonder if they’d pass a similar test if applied to their personal finances. It’s a valid question, and one that should not be ignored.

 

To help consumers measure their own financial stability, the National Foundation for Credit Counseling (NFCC) created the following Consumer Financial Stress Test based on the findings of the NFCC’s 2009 Consumer Financial Literacy Survey.

 

See how your finances measure up relative to the rest of Americans.

 

Q: On a scale of A to F, what grade would you give yourself in terms of your knowledge about personal finance?

Results: It appears that many of us would not be moving to the front of the class, as 41 percent of U.S. adults, or more than 92 million people, gave themselves a grade of C, D or F on their knowledge of personal finance.

 

Q: Which best describes how you manage your money?

Results: Less than half, 42 percent, keep close track of their spending, with 7 percent, or nearly 16 million, admitting they don’t know how much they spend on food, housing, and entertainment, and do not monitor their overall spending.

 

Q: What best describes your financial situation?

Results: 26 percent, or more than 58 million adults, admit to not paying all of their bills on time, with 13 million admitting to having debts in collection, or are seriously considering filing for bankruptcy, or have done so in the last three years.

 

Q: In which ways did the terms of your mortgage turn out to be different than what you initially expected?

Results: 42 percent, or more than 94 million people currently have a mortgage. Of those, 28 percent say that the terms of their mortgage somehow turned out to be different, including either the payment amount or terms of the loan, the interest rate or its duration, or they had no knowledge of the required Private Mortgage Insurance.

 

Q: What percentage of your household income do you save toward retirement?

Results: More than 74 million people do not put any part of their annual household income toward retirement. This number is up from 28 percent in 2008 to 33 percent in 2009.

 

Q: Compared to one year ago, how has the current economic climate affected your spending, and if you are spending less now, if your financial situation were to improve, would you be likely to spend more?

Results: Although 57 percent of adults report spending less than they were a year ago, 45 percent of those now spending less admit that if their financial situation were to improve, they would resume their previous spending habits.

 

Q: Have you ordered a copy of your credit report, and do you know your credit score?

Results: In spite of it being free, nearly two-thirds, or 144 million people, have not ordered a copy of their credit report in the past year. Additionally, more than one-third admit that the do not know their credit score.

 

"Would your finances be viewed as solvent, or would you be told to raise more capital?" asks Gail Cunningham, spokesperson for the NFCC. "The survey reveals startling deficiencies related to financial stability. That’s the bad news. The good news is that tools are available for consumers to take control of their financial future, but it is up to the consumer to reach out for that help."

 

The 2009 Financial Literacy survey was conducted by telephone within the United States by Harris Interactive on behalf of the NFCC between March 13 and March 16, 2009 among 1,000 adults ages 18+. Results were weighted for age, sex, geographic region, and race where necessary to align them with their actual proportions in the population.

 

If you need help raising your grade on the Consumer Financial Stress Test, reach out to an NFCC Member Agency. To reach the agency closest to you, dial (800) 388-2227, or go online to www.DebtAdvice.org. For help in Spanish, call (800) 682-9832.

 

The National Foundation for Credit Counseling (NFCC), founded in 1951, is the nation’s largest and longest serving national nonprofit credit counseling organization. The NFCC’s mission is to promote the national agenda for financially responsible behavior and build capacity for its members to deliver the highest quality financial education and counseling services. NFCC Members annually help more than three million consumers through close to 850 community-based offices nationwide. For free and affordable confidential advice through a reputable NFCC Member, call (800) 388-2227, (en Español (800) 682-9832) or visit www.nfcc.org.

 

Credit Card Reforms Don’t Go Far Enough

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Recently we saw landmark legislation pass regarding credit card reform for consumers.  All I can say is, "It’s about time, but it doesn’t go far enough." 

 

Those of you who read my blog know that I am a vocal advocate for reform in this area as the credit card companies have essentially become what I call, "Legalized Loan Sharks."  Read again why Capital One is no longer in my wallet -

 

http://divorcemoneymatters.com/2009/03/20/credit-card-reform-action-alert-capital-one-whats-not-in-my-wallet/
 

In the past week, I was interviewed by Consumers Union, the non-profit arm of Consumer Reports, regarding my experiences with Capital One and Discover card, who has also joined the game of rewriting the rules in their favor.   My story will be featured, along with many others, as we continue to ask why Congress can give immediate assistance to many of the largest financial institutions, but consumers have to wait until next year while the credit card companies continue to sock it to us.

 

Our economy cannot revive and prosper if folks are spending their hard earned dollars on more interest payments instead of new purchases that are needed to get money flowing through our economy and onto recovery.  I will keep you posted on any further actions with this issue.

New divorce video has lots of useful information!

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I am very excited about the addition of video to my repetoire of ways to reach out and connect with others.

Recently I was interviewed by Bruce Towers of Freedom Builders about my divorce practice and how I help my clients.  If you want to know more about different divorce options, more peaceful ways of divorcing, what you need to know about divvying up assets and debts, then check this out.  I hope you find this information interesting and helpful!

http://tinyurl.com/Lisa-C-Decker-CDFA

I welcome your comments.

~ Lisa ~

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