Get Information on the New Credit Card Rules

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Here is a good synopsis of the new Credit Rules that went into effect this week from the Federal Reserve.  http://tinyurl.com/new-credit-card-rules.  I have been blogging about the need for these reforms for some time now.  They are a step in the right direction, though the credit card companies were given a long head start to give many folks the shaft before the changes came.

Pay particular attention to the example given in the "How Long Will it Take to Pay off Your Balance" section.  Minimum payments will keep you indebted to the credit card companies for much of your life. 

Best bet, use your credit cards wisely… only for emergencies or if you know you can pay off the balance every month.  That way you can avoid the credit card crunch and pay yourself.  Just imagine what those minimum payments could be worth to you in retirement if you were able to invest that money for your future rather then having to pay it towards debt! 

My Case Study Published in a New Book!

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I’m very excited to have my case study on Credit Matters published in the new book, “Living Life After Divorce and Widowhood – Financial Planning, Skills, and Strategies for When the Unthinkable Happens,” by Maurcia DeLean Houck. I’m one of only 6 selected in the whole country to be featured in the book!  I hope you’ll check it out!!

 

Government Assistance for Homeowners is a Farce!

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I wrote this email today to a reporter at the NY Times regarding his story that came out today and my experiences with my clients in regards to the govt. assistance programs mentioned in it.  http://www.nytimes.com/2010/02/15/business/15housing.html?th&emc=th  My email to him below.

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Mr. Streitfeld,

I am writing regarding your article today, U.S. Housing Aid Winds Down, and Cities Worry.  I saw that you made reference to the home owner assistance programs through the government.  I wanted to share with you my experience in dealing with these agencies and lenders.

I am a CDFA (Certified Divorce Financial Analyst) and I have been trying to help several clients navigate the murky waters of divorce in a down real estate market.  

When the government announced the home owner assistance programs I was very excited to be able to offer a ray of hope for those buried under the debt of fallen housing values.  What I have found instead is a front and a farce with these programs.

Because the lenders can choose whether or not to participate these measures have no teeth.  I have yet to find one lender who is willing to participate and in my conversations with other professionals that deal with the same matters we are all finding the same thing - little to no participation from the lenders or servicers of the loans.

In essence, it appears that the homeowners have been offered hope, but really there is nothing behind the curtain when it is pulled back. The HUD counselors have no authority to make anything happen either.

I have called my Senators offices, Johnny Isakson and Saxby Chambliss (Ga.) and emailed the White House several times about this to no avail.  Not one of them has returned my phone calls or emails.

No one in the media is talking about this as I don’t believe many are aware.  I am trying to get the conversation going because I truly believe that the institutions that were bailed out when they needed help are now stalling in the hopes that the programs will simply run out of time before anyone realizes what is going on.

Please do a follow-up story on this as families are losing their homes while the stalling game is played.

Thank you for your time and attention.

Lisa C. Decker, CDFA
www.DivorceMoneyMatters.com

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I would love to hear your experiences with any of the government sponsored home owner assistance programs - HAMP,  HARP, H4H and their newest HAFA.  Please leave some comments below.  And be sure to contact your Congressmen, Senators and the White House to keep the pressure on to help the taxpayers who bailed out the big banks when they needed it!

A reader’s question - Where to begin in divorce?

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Dear Lisa,

 

I just started thinking about divorce and really feel overwhelmed by it all.  Where would you recommend I begin?

 

K.S., Douglasville, Ga.

 

Dear K.S.,

 

I appreciate your question and concerns.  Know that what you are feeling is completely normal under the circumstances.  Change of any kind can be overwhelming.  Divorce and its challenges just compound those feelings. 

 

Let’s start by understanding that the number one biggest determining factor in how your divorce will proceed is the choice you make in how you will divorce. You may not even be aware that there are several paths available to you - mediation, collaborative divorce and of course, traditional litigation, which is the path that folks most commonly think of.

 

Begin by thinking of your divorce as a business transaction and conducting yourself accordingly.  Get educated, get organized and be a proactive partner with the members of your divorce team, whichever method you choose to use to get your best results.

 

I meet with clients on a weekly basis who echo these questions and concerns:

 

·         “I do not know anyone who has been divorced. What will my experience be like?”

·         “I have seen people get divorced. Not only was it a horrible experience, it was unbelievably expensive.  How can I do things differently?”

·         “I want to divorce amicably and still get my fair share. How can I achieve this?”

·         “I want this to be over with quickly.  I’m willing to just let my spouse have what they want so I can be done with it.”

 

This last statement is the one I hear most often.  It’s also the one that can be the biggest mistake and that may cause you the most regrets later on.  This statement is made from an emotional standpoint.   Understand that making decisions based on emotion will most likely cost you lots of money.

 

The best thing I can recommend is that you take some time to learn about your options and seek guidance and support where needed. Educate yourself and create pre-divorce strategies that will allow you to be in control of yourself and the process.   This will help you to save time, money and your sanity!

Don’t Miss Tonight’s Teleseminar - Making Sound Divorce Decisions

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Don’t miss tonight’s teleseminar, Making Sound Divorce Decisions, hosted by member Rosalind Sedacca, founder of Child Centered Divorce Month taking place during the month of July.

Divorce can be very costly — both physically and emotionally. Join author and divorced mother of four Christina Rowe, founder of ChildSharing, Michelle Muncy and Divorce Financial Analyst Lisa Decker as they share insights about pro-actively planning your divorce to avoid the pitfalls of financial and psychological devastation — for you and your children.

Learn the success strategies for creating a win-win divorce before signing on the dotted line — and for the months and years that follow.

Here’s the Phone-Number to Dial: 201-793-0051 Use Conference ID: 588016#

Or use this link to listen on the web:
http://instantteleseminar.com/?eventid=8217561
(and ask questions in advance)

If you miss the call you can return to the above link to listen to the audio recording.

Be sure to also get your complimentary ebooks, coaching and other child-centered divorce-related gifts by visiting: http://childsharing.com/childcentereddivorce.
 

Consumer Financial Stress Test - How do you score?

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NFCC CREATES CONSUMER FINANCIAL STRESS TEST

National Financial Literacy Survey Serves as Benchmark for Financial Stability

 

 

This is reprinted from the National Foundation for Credit Counseling website. 

Take the test and see how you rank.

 

May 7, 2009  Silver Spring, MD - As Americans await news of the stress test evaluation of banks, many may wonder if they’d pass a similar test if applied to their personal finances. It’s a valid question, and one that should not be ignored.

 

To help consumers measure their own financial stability, the National Foundation for Credit Counseling (NFCC) created the following Consumer Financial Stress Test based on the findings of the NFCC’s 2009 Consumer Financial Literacy Survey.

 

See how your finances measure up relative to the rest of Americans.

 

Q: On a scale of A to F, what grade would you give yourself in terms of your knowledge about personal finance?

Results: It appears that many of us would not be moving to the front of the class, as 41 percent of U.S. adults, or more than 92 million people, gave themselves a grade of C, D or F on their knowledge of personal finance.

 

Q: Which best describes how you manage your money?

Results: Less than half, 42 percent, keep close track of their spending, with 7 percent, or nearly 16 million, admitting they don’t know how much they spend on food, housing, and entertainment, and do not monitor their overall spending.

 

Q: What best describes your financial situation?

Results: 26 percent, or more than 58 million adults, admit to not paying all of their bills on time, with 13 million admitting to having debts in collection, or are seriously considering filing for bankruptcy, or have done so in the last three years.

 

Q: In which ways did the terms of your mortgage turn out to be different than what you initially expected?

Results: 42 percent, or more than 94 million people currently have a mortgage. Of those, 28 percent say that the terms of their mortgage somehow turned out to be different, including either the payment amount or terms of the loan, the interest rate or its duration, or they had no knowledge of the required Private Mortgage Insurance.

 

Q: What percentage of your household income do you save toward retirement?

Results: More than 74 million people do not put any part of their annual household income toward retirement. This number is up from 28 percent in 2008 to 33 percent in 2009.

 

Q: Compared to one year ago, how has the current economic climate affected your spending, and if you are spending less now, if your financial situation were to improve, would you be likely to spend more?

Results: Although 57 percent of adults report spending less than they were a year ago, 45 percent of those now spending less admit that if their financial situation were to improve, they would resume their previous spending habits.

 

Q: Have you ordered a copy of your credit report, and do you know your credit score?

Results: In spite of it being free, nearly two-thirds, or 144 million people, have not ordered a copy of their credit report in the past year. Additionally, more than one-third admit that the do not know their credit score.

 

"Would your finances be viewed as solvent, or would you be told to raise more capital?" asks Gail Cunningham, spokesperson for the NFCC. "The survey reveals startling deficiencies related to financial stability. That’s the bad news. The good news is that tools are available for consumers to take control of their financial future, but it is up to the consumer to reach out for that help."

 

The 2009 Financial Literacy survey was conducted by telephone within the United States by Harris Interactive on behalf of the NFCC between March 13 and March 16, 2009 among 1,000 adults ages 18+. Results were weighted for age, sex, geographic region, and race where necessary to align them with their actual proportions in the population.

 

If you need help raising your grade on the Consumer Financial Stress Test, reach out to an NFCC Member Agency. To reach the agency closest to you, dial (800) 388-2227, or go online to www.DebtAdvice.org. For help in Spanish, call (800) 682-9832.

 

The National Foundation for Credit Counseling (NFCC), founded in 1951, is the nation’s largest and longest serving national nonprofit credit counseling organization. The NFCC’s mission is to promote the national agenda for financially responsible behavior and build capacity for its members to deliver the highest quality financial education and counseling services. NFCC Members annually help more than three million consumers through close to 850 community-based offices nationwide. For free and affordable confidential advice through a reputable NFCC Member, call (800) 388-2227, (en Español (800) 682-9832) or visit www.nfcc.org.

 

Coming Up - Live Radio Interview - “Financial Quirks of Divorce”

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Don’t miss this live interview by Margot Swann of Visions Anew on her radio show, Divorce Resource - June 17th from 1:00 to 2:00 pm EST.  We will be discussing the "Financial Quirks of Divorce." You can listen live here -
http://www.radiosandysprings.com/index.php?id=3

 

Want to Prevent Divorce and Appear in Redbook Magazine?!

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Looking for a way to prevent divorce?  This might be your chance to work with a fabulous expert.  Details are below.  Contact the reporter directly if interested in participating.  Good luck!

~ Lisa~

 

Redbook’s "Marriage Makeover" Looking for Couples

Name: Brenda Della Casa

Email: Cinderellawasaliar@gmail.com



Title: Author of Cinderella Was a Liar/Freelancer

Media Outlet: Redbook Magazine

Specific Geographic Region: N

Deadline: 07:06pm EASTERN - 19 June

Query:

Redbook Magazine is seeking couples for their famed "Marriage Makeover"
section. Couples who are interested in having Redbook’s top couples
therapist help them work through their issue (no issue is too large or
small to submit from chore and parenting disagreements to in-law problems
and infidelity). The section is not salacious or embarrassing in any way
but focused on helping the couple work through their issue and help readers
with the same issue learn from the piece as well. Couples must be
photographed for the piece and real first names will be used. To be
considered, you must send your names, ages, a photo, a brief but detailed
description of your issue, how many years you have been married, how many
children you have, your full contact information and how many years you
have been married. Please make sure that both parties are interested
in doing the profile before submitting. There is no pay for being
profiled but the therapy is free. Please submit all information to BRENDA
DELLA CASA AT Cinderellawasaliar@gmail.com ASAP to be considered.

 

 

Credit Card Reforms Don’t Go Far Enough

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Recently we saw landmark legislation pass regarding credit card reform for consumers.  All I can say is, "It’s about time, but it doesn’t go far enough." 

 

Those of you who read my blog know that I am a vocal advocate for reform in this area as the credit card companies have essentially become what I call, "Legalized Loan Sharks."  Read again why Capital One is no longer in my wallet -

 

http://divorcemoneymatters.com/2009/03/20/credit-card-reform-action-alert-capital-one-whats-not-in-my-wallet/
 

In the past week, I was interviewed by Consumers Union, the non-profit arm of Consumer Reports, regarding my experiences with Capital One and Discover card, who has also joined the game of rewriting the rules in their favor.   My story will be featured, along with many others, as we continue to ask why Congress can give immediate assistance to many of the largest financial institutions, but consumers have to wait until next year while the credit card companies continue to sock it to us.

 

Our economy cannot revive and prosper if folks are spending their hard earned dollars on more interest payments instead of new purchases that are needed to get money flowing through our economy and onto recovery.  I will keep you posted on any further actions with this issue.

New divorce video has lots of useful information!

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I am very excited about the addition of video to my repetoire of ways to reach out and connect with others.

Recently I was interviewed by Bruce Towers of Freedom Builders about my divorce practice and how I help my clients.  If you want to know more about different divorce options, more peaceful ways of divorcing, what you need to know about divvying up assets and debts, then check this out.  I hope you find this information interesting and helpful!

http://tinyurl.com/Lisa-C-Decker-CDFA

I welcome your comments.

~ Lisa ~

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