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Pajama Parenting

January 29, 2010 By Leave a Comment



With many divorcing couples seeking to make the transition between both parents homes easier on the kids, this couple has come up with a unique concept – Pajama Parenting.  Check it out here – https://pajamaparenting.com/Home_Page.html

Though this will not work for everyone, it does open up the mind to creative ideas.  If you are willing to thinking outside the box and truly sharing a child-centered divorce, then it is possible to come up with ideas that can make life easier for your children and even yourself!



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Free Help for Haiti with a simple click!

January 14, 2010 By Leave a Comment



There is a very interesting post at DivorceSaloon.com regarding the impact of the earthquake on Haiti and how that devastating event will be affecting many others in the world who want to obtain a "quickie divorce" which Haiti is known for.  Of course, the author of the post sends wishes to the people of Haiti as well.  Check it out here:  http://tinyurl.com/yg747or 

I too, send my thoughts and prayers to our neighbors in the Caribbean.   At the age of 10, I survived a 6.8 magnitude earthquake in LA….I still remember what the devastion looks like.  It’s a shame that the poorest country in the western hemisphere has to be experiencing such sorrow.

Here’s a wonderful way I found to help many others around the world, including Haiti.  

http://tinyurl.com/HelpHaiti-HelpStopHunger

One small act, such wide-reaching results.  Touch lives with a click.  I hope you’ll join me!

 

 



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Different Divorce Options

January 13, 2010 By 1 Comment



 

Here are some divorce options you may not be aware of:

·         Pro-Se – Do it yourself.   May be ok for very simple cases (no real estate or other assets or debts, no children), but beware this can be riddled with problems.  Best to at least consult with a financial advisor and attorney before finalizing.

·         Pre-Divorce Financial Planning – Working with a CDFA or Divorce Financial Planner to work out the financial issues before filing for divorce can be very cost effective.  Once the financial and parenting issues (if there are any) are worked out then a couple can file as an uncontested divorce literally saving themselves thousands, if not tens of thousands, in legal fees.

·         Mediation – Mediators act as neutral parties to help couples craft their own agreements.  

·         Arbitration – Used only for particular areas of contention that couples can’t work out on their own.  Final and binding.  Not commonly used in divorce or the best way to go, but can be useful in some situations.

·         Collaborative Divorce – Uses a team concept – 2 attorneys, 2 coaches, 1 financial neutral and 1 child specialist, if needed.  Parties are not allowed to go to court.  There are pros and cons to this as well.

·         Cooperative Divorce – Similar to Collaborative, but parties leave open the option for going to court.  That may be a pro or a con.

·         Litigated Divorce – This is what most people think of when they hear the word divorce.  Knock down, duke it out in court types of divorces with very adversarial approaches.  With the right blend of attorneys on both sides, this may not be as costly.  With the wrong type of attorney on either side, this can be a money-sucker for both sides from the very start.

·         There  may be combinations of any among these.

 

 



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Tiger Woods – Serial Cheetah (Cheater)!

December 21, 2009 By Leave a Comment



There is a post on DivorceSaloon.com http://tinyurl.com/TigerSerialCheater that I just left a comment on.  I’ve kept quite up until now, but I had to post my reply here.  And by the way, my response would be the same if it was Elin who was the cheater, this is not a sexist reply.

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Ok, I’m confused as to why are you so interested in helping Tiger Woods, who I’ve dubbed, “The Serial Cheetah (Cheater)” in this situation?

This is a man who has everything and has been living the good life. His behavior has not only been an incredible embarrassment to his family and sponsors, but also think about the damage he has done as a “role model”.

Look, having an affair is bad enough, but serial cheating is another. Maybe his defense will be that he has a sex addiction. Who knows, could be true. Get some help for God’s sake!

But, I guess it doesn’t really matter anymore…cheat with a dozen or so women and then get named “Athlete of the Year.” Got to love America….land of the free, home of the brave. He was brave alright, brave and brazen in his sexting right under his wife’s sleeping nose. Elin, go get him!



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Don’t miss this FREE Teleseminar – Happier Holidays Despite Divorce…

December 9, 2009 By



Be sure to join me for my special teleseminar this month for more helpful hints on how to make your holidays happier despite divorce, featuring Joanie Winberg, author, Radio Personality, Speaker, and Business/Personal Coach specializing in Divorce. In addition, she is theCEO andFounder of The National Association of Divorce for Women and Children -www.NADWC.com.

This months teleseminar features information on issues that anyone going through the divorce of your marriage during the holidays can benefit from.Be sure to make note of any questions you may have if you would like them answered during the call, and as always both men and women are always welcome.

Wednesday December 9th at 7:00 pm.

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Find the gifts within every challenge…

December 1, 2009 By



 

Here in metro Atlanta, Ga. autumn has descended upon us as the leaves continue to fall. It seems amazing to me that a year or so ago we all spoke about the serious drought we were facing and now a year later many are looking at the devastation left behind by massive flooding. Finding the balance between the two would be ideal going forward!
Many of you have heard me speak about my mantra, “Find the gifts within every challenge.” Recently I made a discovery that rings true to that message ironically in my own backyard. When we moved here several years ago I was told that there had been an active spring here once that had since dried up from the drought. So while cleaning and clearing the massive mess left behind from the flooding I was delighted to find a little blessing that made me smile…our spring has sprung again!
 
This was truly symbolic for me because when times were tough in my life I used to envision living in a place where there were towering trees and a small stream that I could sit by and just be. You know, a special place where the troubles of the world melt away. When we moved here I found everything I had hoped for except, the water, and now here it was replenished by the ravages of a storm!
 
This month my special teleseminar series, “Divorce Speak” features Joanie Winberg, founder of the National Association of Divorce for Women and Children. She will be sharing information on the do’s and don’ts of getting through the holidays while dealing with divorce. One quick tip is to find the gratitude in every challenge as I wrote about above. Want to make sure you have happier holidays despite divorce? Sign up today to listen in and find out more!
 
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Need some support this holiday season?

November 25, 2009 By



With the holiday season upon us, the stress of divorce is compounded. The article below is from “Parental Alienation Hurts,” by Chrissy. I hope this article is helpful to anyone going through a difficult time. Happy Thanksgiving to All. I am thankful you are here.   ~ Lisa

24 November, 2009 (18:21) | Reflections | By: chrissy
The holiday season has arrived as it does every year. The season is one that is recognized for family celebrations and children opening presents with food and laughter. In some houses there will be a silence that will remind of us of the term parental alienation. These homes will be reminded of memories past and the old traditions that brought smiles and warm fuzzy emotions that are affiliated with Christmas.
During these weeks the pain threshold is increased to unlimited reminders of the time you don’t have with your children. While we are hiding from the holidays we are constantly prompted by the visions of lights, commercials, and children in our midst.  We have friends and family that understand to a limit and we feel alone in a whirlwind of tears that we alone cry. It is painful to be a non custodial parent and while it is healthy to grieve there needs to come a time when we say life goes on. There is nothing selfish in this thought process.
Below are some helpful suggestions that might make your holiday season more manageable and easier to cope with. It will be an easier process if you plan ahead and know this is a task that needs your assistance to help others.
·         Open your home to other non custodial parents
·         Don’t be home alone spend it with family and friends if possible
·         Spend some time at a homeless shelter and help serve their needs
·         Help under privileged children
·         Put together an outing with others so no one is an “orphan” for the holidays.
·         Take a vacation with a friend
·         Plan a new project
These are not easy transitions to acquire and will take time. You will still have emotions of sadness but they will not be over cumbering to you.  Sometimes we isolate ourselves in our own misery and we make it harder to climb out of the trenches of our pain.  We must remember in divorce children also have mixed emotions about the holidays. 
On Thanksgiving night Parental Alienation Hurts and Get Your Justice Live will have our annual Holiday Support Call. Many of us come together to share memories, tears, and yes even a few laughs in the process.  The call is takes place from 8pm EST: To call in live during the show dial 724-898-1660
 Join us via the computer FREE LIVE CHAT STARTS AT 8PM EST  http://budurl.com/liveshowtimechat
I hope to see some of you there to know you’re not alone this holiday.
 

 



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Last Chance to Sign Up for Tonight’s FREE Teleseminar!

October 28, 2009 By



 

There’s still time to register for tonight’s call about Breaking Up Your Marriage and Your Business.  Don’t miss my teleseminar series where I will be interviewing Marty Varon, a skillful business valuator and sensational CPA who will be sharing information on issues that anyone going through the divorce of your marriage and your business should know. Join us to find out how to get your best settlement possible. 
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Breaking Up Marriage and Business?

October 27, 2009 By



 

You know every where you turn these days it seems we hear bad news about the economy and business. Going through a divorce and trying to sell a business in the midst of this economy is challenging to say the least. Depending on which side of the bargaining table you sit on, you may be able to use this down economy to your advantage. If business is down, then it’s generally worth less and if you are the one keeping the business after your split that’s in your favor. However, being on the other side where you will likely be selling your portion out at a low point means being especially careful, and needing extra knowledge and attention to get your best deal as well.
 
Check out my special teleseminar series, “Divorce Speak” this month featureing Marty Varon, a skillful business valuator and sensational CPA who will be sharing information on issues that anyone going through the divorce of your marriage and your business should know. What one clause MUST you have in your settlement agreement to protect yourself if you’ve got both your marriage and a business to split? Be sure to listen in to find out!
 
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Assistance Available for Flood Victims in Georgia

October 14, 2009 By



This information below is from a recent email I received from Senator Johnny Isakson regarding flood relief for the recent victims in Georgia.  More rain has happened this week and is still raining today.  Prayers go out to the victims of all this flooding.

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Recently, our state witnessed a series of severe storms that resulted in flooding across much of north Georgia and the metro Atlanta area. As a result, Gov. Sonny Perdue requested a federal disaster declaration from President Obama to assist the affected areas.

On September 24, 2009, President Obama issued a Major Disaster Declaration for the state of Georgia, triggering the release of federal funds to help individuals recover from the severe storms and flooding that began September 18, 2009, and continuing. Currently, the counties of Bartow, Carroll, Catoosa, Chattooga, Cherokee, Cobb, Coweta, DeKalb, Douglas, Fulton, Gwinnett, Heard, Newton, Paulding, Rockdale, Stephens and Walker have been designated for Individual Assistance, and all counties are eligible to apply for the Hazard Mitigation Grant Program.

Individual Assistance can include temporary housing assistance for eligible applicants such as rental assistance and repair assistance. If you sustained damage during these storms and live in one of the designated counties, I encourage you to register with FEMA by calling 1-800-621-FEMA (3362) or TTY (800) 462-7585 for individuals with speech or hearing disabilities. If you have Internet access, you may apply for disaster assistance online at http://www.disasterassistance.gov <http://www.disasterassistance.gov> .

In addition, Carroll, Catoosa, Chattooga, Cobb, Douglas, Gwinnett, Paulding, Stephens and Walker counties are also now eligible for Public Assistance. This assistance provides funding on a cost-sharing basis to local governments and certain private nonprofit organizations for the repair or replacement of damaged roads, dams, bridges, water treatment facilities, publicly-owned utilities and other types of infrastructure.

I have been in communication with state emergency officials as well as local government officials in counties affected by this severe weather and flooding. Last week, I toured some of the damaged areas with Vice President Biden, Homeland Security Secretary Napolitano and FEMA Administrator Fugate. I believe it was very important for the administration to see firsthand the destruction that has taken place, and I hope it helps them understand the urgency of getting help to all of Georgia’s affected   communities.

I have compiled the latest information on disaster response and recovery activities on my website. Please visit http://www.isakson.senate.gov/flooding.html <http://www.isakson.senate.gov/flooding.html>  for more information, including a list of local disaster relief centers.



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