Still time to register for free teleseminar - The Secret to a Friendly Divorce

Blog No Comments

Don’t miss this FREE call with J. Richard Kulerski, Illinois attorney with over 40 years experience in family law and Harvard trained mediator, on how to have a smart and savvy divorce that will save you time, money and your sanity!   This is a call not to be missed.

Sign up on this webpage for call in information:

http://divorcemoneymatters.com/considering-divorce/events/the-secret-to-a-friendly-divorce-teleseminar/

See you there!

 

~ Lisa ~

A reader’s question - Where to begin in divorce?

Blog, CDFA No Comments

 

Dear Lisa,

 

I just started thinking about divorce and really feel overwhelmed by it all.  Where would you recommend I begin?

 

K.S., Douglasville, Ga.

 

Dear K.S.,

 

I appreciate your question and concerns.  Know that what you are feeling is completely normal under the circumstances.  Change of any kind can be overwhelming.  Divorce and its challenges just compound those feelings. 

 

Let’s start by understanding that the number one biggest determining factor in how your divorce will proceed is the choice you make in how you will divorce. You may not even be aware that there are several paths available to you - mediation, collaborative divorce and of course, traditional litigation, which is the path that folks most commonly think of.

 

Begin by thinking of your divorce as a business transaction and conducting yourself accordingly.  Get educated, get organized and be a proactive partner with the members of your divorce team, whichever method you choose to use to get your best results.

 

I meet with clients on a weekly basis who echo these questions and concerns:

 

·         “I do not know anyone who has been divorced. What will my experience be like?”

·         “I have seen people get divorced. Not only was it a horrible experience, it was unbelievably expensive.  How can I do things differently?”

·         “I want to divorce amicably and still get my fair share. How can I achieve this?”

·         “I want this to be over with quickly.  I’m willing to just let my spouse have what they want so I can be done with it.”

 

This last statement is the one I hear most often.  It’s also the one that can be the biggest mistake and that may cause you the most regrets later on.  This statement is made from an emotional standpoint.   Understand that making decisions based on emotion will most likely cost you lots of money.

 

The best thing I can recommend is that you take some time to learn about your options and seek guidance and support where needed. Educate yourself and create pre-divorce strategies that will allow you to be in control of yourself and the process.   This will help you to save time, money and your sanity!

Don’t Miss Tonight’s Teleseminar - Making Sound Divorce Decisions

Blog, CDFA No Comments

Don’t miss tonight’s teleseminar, Making Sound Divorce Decisions, hosted by member Rosalind Sedacca, founder of Child Centered Divorce Month taking place during the month of July.

Divorce can be very costly — both physically and emotionally. Join author and divorced mother of four Christina Rowe, founder of ChildSharing, Michelle Muncy and Divorce Financial Analyst Lisa Decker as they share insights about pro-actively planning your divorce to avoid the pitfalls of financial and psychological devastation — for you and your children.

Learn the success strategies for creating a win-win divorce before signing on the dotted line — and for the months and years that follow.

Here’s the Phone-Number to Dial: 201-793-0051 Use Conference ID: 588016#

Or use this link to listen on the web:
http://instantteleseminar.com/?eventid=8217561
(and ask questions in advance)

If you miss the call you can return to the above link to listen to the audio recording.

Be sure to also get your complimentary ebooks, coaching and other child-centered divorce-related gifts by visiting: http://childsharing.com/childcentereddivorce.
 

Creating a win/win Child-Centered Divorce - next Free teleseminar

Blog No Comments

Here’s the call-in information you need for the next complimentary Child-Centered Divorce Month Teleseminar 

July 14th at 4:00 pm Pacific/7:00 pm Eastern time.

Creating a win/win Child-Centered Divorce

Michael Mastracci
Cynthia Tiano
Cindy Harari
Rosalind Sedacca

Are there alternatives to battling through divorce? Join former “killer” divorce attorney turned mediator, Cynthia Tiano, along with Collaborative attorney Michael Mastracci, Mediator and Parenting Coordinator Cindy Harari and founder of the Child-Centered Divorce Network, Rosalind Sedacca – all authors of dynamic books on creating a “peaceful” divorce model for the sake of the kids – as they share their perspectives on working with or around the divorce legal system to create the best outcome for your family during and after divorce.

Here’s the Phone-Number to Dial:  201-793-0051
Use Conference ID:  588016#

Or use this link to listen on the web:

http://www.instantteleseminar.com/?eventid=8133078

If you miss the call you can return to the above

link to listen to the audio recording.

 

Be sure to also get your complimentary ebooks, coaching

and other child-centered divorce-related gifts by visiting:

www.childsharing.com/childcentereddivorce.

 

We look forward to your joining us!